Celebrating 10 Years of Being a Mother

Sunday, March 15th morning was one of those moments I will keep in my heart forever. Mother’s Day has always been special, but this year felt different. It marked ten years of being a mummy, ten years of love, learning, sacrifice, laughter, and the greatest blessing of my life.

I woke up to the sweetest surprise from my little family.

Bryan and Flo had prepared beautiful cards for me. The kind that only children can make, full of colour, imagination, and pure love. Bryan wrote me the most touching message, thanking me for being a wonderful mother to him and Flo for the past ten years. Reading his words almost brought me to tears. There is something incredibly special about seeing your child express gratitude like that.

Flo made the most beautiful butterfly card, colourful and creative, just like her personality. She also wrote me the sweetest message telling me she is thankful to have a great mother.

Then Akanni added another layer to the morning that made it even more meaningful.

He gave me a beautiful gift and took time to pray for me and for our family. That moment meant so much to me. There is something incredibly powerful about a husband praying for his wife and covering his family in prayer.

I felt deeply loved and appreciated.

To make the morning even sweeter, the kids and I shared some beautiful chocolates together. The “World’s Best Mum” box they picked out for me. Of course, we had to taste them together!

And because it was Mother’s Day, we ordered a full English breakfast and enjoyed it as a family. Nothing fancy, just a simple moment sitting together, laughing, sharing food, and enjoying each other’s company. Sometimes the most beautiful moments are the simplest ones.

Looking around the room at the cards, the drawings, the chocolates, and my family, my heart was so full.

Ten years ago, I became a mother for the first time

I had no idea how much motherhood would change me. It has stretched me, refined me, strengthened me, and taught me love on a level I never knew existed. Motherhood isn’t always easy. There are long days, sleepless nights, moments of worry, moments of doubt. But days like today remind me that every sacrifice, every prayer, every lesson, and every hug matters.

Watching Bryan and Flo grow into loving, thoughtful children is the greatest reward. Being called “Mummy” will always be my favourite title.

Today I feel grateful. Grateful for my husband and my children.
Grateful for ten beautiful years of motherhood. And if the first ten years have been this special, I cannot wait to see what the next ten will bring.

We ended the day in the most relaxed way. For dinner, we had fried rice and ribs, and of course, Bryan did what Bryan always does, he carefully picked out every single green pea from his plate. Ten years later, and this boy is still a picky eater. Some things never change!😂

After dinner, we all settled down together and watched Young Sheldon. We laughed, joked, and simply enjoyed being together as a family. Those quiet, cozy family moments are honestly my favourite.
No big events.
No big plans.
Just love, laughter, and being together.

My Heart Is Full

As the day came to an end, I found myself reflecting on how blessed I am. Motherhood has been one of the most beautiful journeys of my life. Watching Bryan and Flo grow year after year is something that fills my heart with so much gratitude.

And as I think about the next ten years… wow. Bryan will be 20 years old, and Flo will be 17. Just thinking about it makes me emotional. 🥹

Time truly flies when you’re raising children. But one thing I know for sure is this: I will treasure every moment, every laugh, every lesson, and every memory we create together. What an amazing Mother’s Day with my little cozy family. And I’m already looking forward to the next chapter of this beautiful journey. 🤗

If you’re a new mum reading this, I want you to know something. Motherhood can feel overwhelming in the beginning. There are days when you’re tired, unsure, and wondering if you’re doing enough.

But please remember this: you are learning as your child is growing. There is no perfect mother. There is only a mother who loves, shows up, learns, and keeps trying. Don’t rush the early years. The sleepless nights, the tiny hugs, the little voices calling “Mummy” from the next room, these moments pass quicker than you think.

One day, you’ll wake up, and your child will be writing you cards thanking you for the past ten years. And you’ll realise that all those ordinary days were actually the most precious ones.
So be present.
Laugh often.
Take pictures.
Pray over your children.
Create memories together.
And most importantly, give yourself grace. Because motherhood isn’t about perfection. It’s about love.

My prayers for you

Before I close this post, I want to say a prayer for every mother reading this, and for the women who are still waiting for their turn to become mothers.

Heavenly Father,
Thank you for the gift of motherhood. Thank you to the women who nurture, guide, sacrifice, and love so deeply every single day. I pray that you strengthen every mother who feels tired, overwhelmed, or unsure. Fill her heart with peace, wisdom, patience, and grace for each day. Remind her that the love she pours into her children is powerful, meaningful, and shaping the future in ways she may not yet see.

For the women who are longing to become mothers, Lord, I pray that You comfort their hearts. Give them hope, peace, and reassurance that their story is still being written and that your timing is perfect.

Bless every home represented here with love, unity, and joy. Cover every child with your protection and guide them as they grow into kind, compassionate, and strong individuals.

May every mother feel appreciated, supported, and deeply loved, not just today, but every day.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

To every mum, step-mum, grandma, mum-figure, and mum-to-be, you are seen, you are valued, and you are deeply loved. ❤️